Healing From Childhood Adversity
You didn’t choose what happened to you as a child — but you can choose what happens next. True Therapy offers compassionate, virtual trauma therapy for adults across Ontario who are ready to heal.
What Is Childhood Adversity?
Childhood adversity refers to a range of difficult, harmful, or traumatic experiences that happen during the years when we’re most dependent on the adults around us. These are often called Adverse Childhood Experiences, or ACEs — and they can include things like emotional neglect, physical or sexual abuse, growing up in a household with addiction or mental illness, losing a parent, or simply not being seen and valued as a child. You may not even have words for what happened. You might just know that something about the way you grew up has stayed with you.
The effects of childhood adversity don’t disappear when we grow up. They can show up as anxiety that feels disproportionate to the situation, patterns in relationships that keep repeating, a deep and persistent sense of not being good enough, difficulty trusting others or yourself, emotional swings that feel hard to control, or a body that stays in a near-constant state of tension. These aren’t character flaws — they are your nervous system doing exactly what it learned to do to keep you safe. Childhood trauma therapy in Ontario is available to help you understand those patterns and gently begin to shift them.
Here’s what’s true, and important: healing is possible. It doesn’t require reliving every difficult memory in vivid detail. It doesn’t require you to forgive anyone before you’re ready, or ever. What it does require is a safe relationship — one where you feel genuinely heard — and a therapist who knows how to work with the way trauma lives in both the mind and the body. That’s what we offer at True Therapy.
How True Therapy Can Help
At True Therapy, our work with childhood adversity is trauma-informed from the ground up. That means every session is shaped by an understanding of how trauma affects the nervous system, memory, and sense of self — and that understanding guides what we do, and crucially, what we never do. We don’t push. We don’t move faster than you’re ready to move. The therapeutic relationship itself is part of the healing.
Our therapists draw on a range of evidence-based approaches depending on what each client needs. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is particularly effective for processing traumatic memories that feel stuck or that still carry a strong emotional charge. Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps clients understand the different “parts” of themselves — including the protective parts that may have developed in childhood and can sometimes get in the way now. Somatic awareness practices help you reconnect with the body’s signals in a way that feels grounding rather than overwhelming.
Sessions feel like a conversation — a thoughtful, intentional one, but a conversation nonetheless. Our therapists are warm, attentive, and genuinely curious about your experience. You are not a diagnosis; you’re a person with a history, and we will work at a pace that respects that. If something doesn’t feel right, you can say so. If you need to slow down, we slow down. Nothing is ever forced.
All sessions are delivered virtually, via secure video — which means you can access childhood trauma therapy from anywhere in Ontario, from a space where you already feel comfortable. That continuity matters more than most people expect.
What to Expect
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Your initial consultation is free and 15 minutes. It’s a chance to ask questions, share what’s brought you here, and see whether True Therapy feels like a safe and right fit — with no pressure and no commitment.
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Sessions are 50 minutes via secure video. You join from wherever you feel most at ease. A reliable internet connection is all you need.
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You set the pace — nothing is forced. Trauma-informed therapy means we follow your lead. You decide what you’re ready to explore and when.
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Flexible scheduling across Ontario.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to talk about everything that happened?
No — and that’s worth saying clearly. You are always in control of what you share and when. Many clients find that meaningful healing happens without ever describing every detail of a traumatic experience.
How long does childhood trauma therapy take?
It varies from person to person. Some people notice meaningful shifts within a few months; others find value in longer-term work. In your free consultation, our team can give you a more personal sense of what to expect.
Is virtual therapy as effective as in-person for trauma?
Yes — research consistently supports virtual therapy as equally effective for most people, including those working through trauma. Many clients actually find it easier to go deep from the comfort and privacy of their own space.
What if I’m not sure my childhood was ‘bad enough’ to need therapy?
This question comes up often. Therapy isn’t reserved for the worst stories — it’s for anyone who is carrying something that makes daily life harder than it needs to be. Your pain doesn’t need to pass a threshold.
Do you work with adults only, or also teens?
True Therapy primarily works with adults (18+). If you’re looking for support for a teenager, we’re happy to speak with you in a consultation and point you toward appropriate resources.
Talk with Ritushaa about difficult experiences
Ritushaa Rajendram, MSW, RSW, provides online therapy across Ontario. Her work includes trauma, attachment wounds, emotional regulation and relationship challenges. If difficult experiences are part of what you want help with, a consultation is a place to discuss whether her approach fits your needs. Sessions with Ritushaa are available in English and Tamil.
An approach guided by your needs
Ritushaa describes her work as collaborative and trauma-informed. She draws on EMDR-informed therapy, CBT, attachment-focused therapy and strengths-based practice. You can ask about these approaches and discuss what you want support with before deciding to work together.
Book a free consultation with Ritushaa
Can I ask about her approach before booking a session?
Yes. Choose Ritushaa’s free consultation in the booking system to ask questions and discuss fit. The consultation is separate from a therapy session.
Fees and booking
Ritushaa’s appointment options, durations and fees are listed in True Therapy’s booking system. Benefit coverage depends on your plan and the therapist’s designation. Ritushaa is a Registered Social Worker; confirm coverage with your provider before booking.
You Deserve to Feel Like Yourself Again
You’ve carried this long enough. Reaching out is the hardest step — everything after that, we do together. Our therapists work with adults across Ontario via secure, flexible virtual sessions, and we’d be honoured to hear from you.